This blog is intended as a community resource about abuse, particularly in the BDSM community, although its extensive contents apply broadly to anyone, so I’m hoping it will be useful even for vanilla people who may not even have any idea what BDSM is.
This used to be housed elsewhere, but because of harassment, I have had to move it and rename it to something unassociated with any of the names I am ordinarily known by.
While the line between healthy BDSM and abuse can be rather thin, no one deserves to be abused in any context. It is my goal to make sure that people know the signs – and know how to get out of these relationships before they are destroyed by them
If you are offended by anything I say, think you might be, or don’t like how I write, then this may not be the place for you. No one is forcing you to read this blog.
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