Do you have nightmares about your abuse? Have a partner who does? Take a look at the article “Almost all survivors will have nightmares while healing: How to help your survivor partner during nightmares” for some helpful ideas about how to deal with them, or to help your partner do so.
I wonder why I thought it was just me. The flashbacks I have always understood; the nightmares not so much. I didn’t realize this could be so universal.